Graham Greene: A Life of Love, Film, and Devotion

A Farewell After 34 Years of Marriage

Actor Graham Greene and his wife, Hilary Blackmore, were only months from celebrating their 35th wedding anniversary when tragedy struck. The Dances With Wolves star passed away on September 1, 2025, at age 73, after a long decline in health. He spent his final moments in a Toronto hospital with Hilary by his side. His representative told the New York Post that Greene was “finally free.”

Hollywood Career and Lasting Love

Known for The Green Mile and his Oscar-nominated role in Dances With Wolves, Greene leaves behind both a Hollywood legacy and a remarkable love story. He and Hilary married on December 20, 1990, after reportedly meeting on the film’s set. However, a 1991 report suggests they first crossed paths a year earlier while working on the play Fire in Toronto.

Greene once recalled dropping a wrench just to get Hilary’s attention. Eventually, the tall, strawberry-blonde actress noticed him. Their romance grew quickly, and they exchanged vows in the sacred Black Hills of South Dakota, later registering their marriage in Toronto.

Life Beyond the Spotlight

Although Hilary had worked in acting and wardrobe design, she stepped back when Greene’s career took off. She remained his greatest supporter, the first person he called upon learning of his Oscar nomination.

Despite Hollywood’s pull, Greene avoided California. Instead, the couple built a quiet life outside Toronto with what he called their “small army of cats.” He enjoyed writing, boat-building, and golf, saying: “I just want to play. I don’t care who’s looking.”

A Retreat in the Countryside

City life eventually overwhelmed Greene. Tired of Toronto’s chaos, he and Hilary moved to a log house north of the city. Their 8.5-hectare property featured a pond, a stream, and a cozy stone-heated home. Hilary described it as “welcoming, warm, and energy-efficient.”

Greene created his own sanctuary next door. He jokingly called it “Tubby’s Club House—no girls allowed,” where he watched movies, read scripts, and lifted weights.

Shared Joys and Small Disagreements

Even with their strong bond, the couple didn’t agree on everything. Decorating was a yearly challenge—especially their towering Christmas tree. “We argue about decorating the tree every year,” Hilary once admitted. Still, such small disputes only highlighted the strength of their partnership.

Remembering Graham Greene

Hilary and Graham’s 34-year marriage stood as a rare example of loyalty in Hollywood. Their life together balanced love, humor, and respect. Greene is survived by Hilary, his daughter Lilly Lazare-Greene, and his grandson Tarlo.

Rest in peace, Graham Greene. Your talent, warmth, and wit will be remembered forever.